About Us

Our Story

Why we started

In the summer of 2009 I was an infantry platoon leader in Iraq. In a span of 60 days, my West Point class lost three of our own: Sal Corma and Chris Goeke in Afghanistan, and Rob Collins in Iraq.

I wanted to wear a memorial for them. The only ones I could find were sold by for-profit apparel companies. So I asked a simple question: why don't we make our own bracelets and give them to the families?

It didn't go anywhere then. But it stayed with me.

Joe and Lindsey Wiseman on their wedding day

In 2014, my wife Lindsey and I started the Steel Hearts Foundation. We began with memorial bracelets for fallen West Point graduates. Soon we were making them for every service academy, then for all fallen service members and first responders.

Why it matters to me

In 2021, I came home from work and found that Lindsey had died. She was 36. We had moved to Rock Hill, South Carolina four months earlier for a new job, and I was laid off two days before her funeral. I was in a city where I didn't know anyone, and things fell apart.

What held me together were the Gold Star and surviving families we had made memorials for, the people we had spent time with at events. They became my family. They kept me going until I could get back on my feet.

Steel Hearts honors the fallen. For me, it's also how I honor the people who saved me, and who gave me community and purpose when I had lost both.

Joseph Wiseman
Co-Founder and Executive Director, USMA '08